We invite you to join us on a journey of discovery in the ancient wisdom tradition of growing as a man. It’s free. Just show up to learn, reconnect with, and make new friends. All men are welcome. The Elder community of The Mankind Project is hosting this series of experiential topics of interest to all men on the 2nd Saturday of the month. Men in our community will facilitate topics of their choosing that will support other men’s growth.
Learn how to start up a Saturday Morning Mens Cafe.
Our next Mens Cafe meeting is: Saturday September 9 11:30 am to 11:30. We will meet using Zoom. Please email bruce@thinkingpartners.com for the Zoom link.
We invite you to join us on a journey of discovery in the ancient wisdom tradition of growing as a man. It’s free. Just show up to learn, reconnect with, and make new friends. All men are welcome.
The Elder community of The Mankind Project is hosting this series of experiential topics of interest to all men on the 2nd Saturday of the month, thru Oct 2022 Men in our community will facilitate topics of their choosing that will support your personal growth.
Our next Men’s Cafe meeting is Saturday Sept 9, 2023 9:30am to 11:30. On Zoom
UNPACKING POWER, PRIVILEGE, AND DIFFERENCE
Join Josh Tobin on November 11, 2023 930-1130 AM CT
We’re hearing quite a bit nowadays about diversity, equity, and inclusion. So, what does all that mean? And, why should I be concerned about it?
Josh Tabin in leading us in a discussion around power, privilege, and difference with a focus on how warrior communication can provide a model for better understanding.
Josh will cover:Understanding difference through the lens of power dynamics and privilege (both earned and unearned)
Levels of communication and using “I” statements- Intent vs. impact regarding statements
- Listening to understand
- Clearings as tools for identifying and removing projections
Josh Tabin is a warrior brother in the South Central Area. Josh is so passionate about this subject that he is a co-facilitator in MKP’s UPPD course (UPPD stands for Unpacking Power, Privilege, and Difference).
Joe Hirsch will facilitate a discussion Relax and Release What You Are Resisting
Discover the transformative power of inner peace and self-realization with a dive deep into the teachings of Michael Singer and uncover the essence of your true self — the inner observer beyond thoughts and feelings.
Learn the art of non-resistance to life’s challenges and how daily practices can enhance spiritual growth. Understand the significance of welcoming all experiences, and the joy that unfolds from it. Whether you’re faced with minor irritations or larger challenges, this workshop will guide you towards greater acceptance, relaxation, and inner freedom.
Join us in this enlightening journey and pave your way to boundless awareness beyond the confines of a narrowed self.
Joe is a retired Licensed Professional Counselor and spiritual seeker who has been involved with the MKP community for over ten years.
Todd Silva facilitate a discussion on Expanding Your Medical Care Options
Join Todd as he shares his personal experiences as a patient with a conventional, integrative, and functional medicine doctor. Functional and integrative medicine are a personalized, patient-centered approaches to healthcare that focuses on identifying and addressing the root causes of illness, rather than just treating symptoms. They are It is a more subtle and holistic approach to disease and disease prevention.
Todd is an electrical engineer with a passion for music. He has been a member of MKP community in 2001.
Kirby Benson and Luis Bautista will teach Spiritual Elder Practices October 2022
The Elder Journey consist of Eight steps as the blueprint for a man to awaken in the journey of becoming an Elder. Luis and Kirby will discuss the Eighth step which is becoming a Spiritual Elder.
Discover The Spirit Practice and the steps of everyday spirituality. Learn simple and effective ways to activate the awareness within and how the use of spirit can bring value and meaning to our Elder Journey.The Spirit Elder Archetype at was presented and well received last year’s at the Celebration Week of Elders. Luis and Kirby are well known elders spiritual teachers and have been in MKP for years.
The Elder Journey consist of Eight steps as the blueprint for a man to awaken in the journey of becoming an Elder. Luis and Kirby will discuss the Eighth step which is becoming a Spiritual Elder. Discover The Spirit Practice and the steps of everyday spirituality. Learn simple an–––d effective ways to activate the awareness within and how the use of spirit can bring value and meaning to our Elder Journey.
The Spirit Elder Archetype at was presented and well received last year’s at the Celebration Week of Elders. Luis and Kirby are well known elders spiritual teachers and have been in MKP for years.
Tom Oldham led a discussion on Living with Significant Others-Lessons Learned September 10, 2022
Whether you have been married or have a partner, most find that living together is a challenge that requires self-awareness, compromise, and commitment. We are going to explore some generic tips on having successful relationships and then we will learn from each other’s experience on how to have a successful relationship and what we can do better.
Tom is a law professor at University of Houston and has been active in MKP for 20 years.
Here is Tom’s presentation with resources
John Gwin facilitated a discussion of Six Hidden Types of Shadows August 13, 2022
Shadows are the dark and golden parts of ourselves we hide, repress, deny, indulge, or justify. These are parts of ourselves we have no wish to be… or are unaware of being… or are unaware of the impact… or we don’t care about the impact.
Shadows impact own of psychology and how we react to the world. Two people in relationship always have their shadows at play with each other.
Learning about the various types of shadow can provide deep insight and enhance the way we relate.
John Gwin will provide teachings and you will have a chance to be in conversations with other men about these shadows.
Ken Roseboom will lead a discussion on Critical Decisions That Impact Your Life
Major decisions we have made, and not made, have determined the course of our lives. Our decisions on occupations, relationships, and lifestyle have determined much of our well-being. The news is that we have more decisions to make as we age, and they are just as important as major decisions in the past. This program will focus on gathering the wisdom of our past and applying it to those major life decisions yet to come. You will leave with new tools and a plan for making your next life impacting decision.
Ken Roseboom is an executive leadership coach who joined the MKP community in 2013.
Mark Diamond and Michael Hart facilitated a discussion on Becoming a Caregiver for a Sick or Disabled Love One June 12, 2022
Evert thought of how to get/provide support to the caregiver of a loved one with a chronic or life-threatening illness” An estimated 3.4 million Texans help a loved one with their activities of daily living. Most likely at some point in. your life you will need to step up and be a caregiver. This could be for a spouse, and elderly parent or a friend.
Bruce Anderson will facilitate a discussion on Living Intentionally with Personal Technology May 14, 2022
It pervades every aspect of our lives and in the last 15 years it has changed the way we relate to the world and with each other.
Bruce will share his user experiences with technology. We will also discuss its upside and downside. We will share the applications we use, primarily on our phones.
You will walk away with other’s tips and apps that will help live more intentionally with personal technology
Here is video of presentation.
Michael Bologna facilitated a discussion on FOUR QUESTIONS THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE on April 9, 2022
One of the great spiritual teachings is “learning to live with what is”. In this presentation will Michael share the work of the well known author, Byron Katie. He will take you through the concepts behind the four questions and provoke conversations to explore how the impact of using them can have on your life.
Noticing When Your Thoughts Argue with Reality The only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with what is. When the mind is perfectly clear, what is is what we want.
Here is video of the presentation
Four Questions Worksheet
Saturday Morning Men’s Cafe Presentation – April 9^LLJ 2022
Joe Hirsch facilitated a discussion of FINDING YOUR GIFT on March 12, 2022
Using ancient Indian spiritual teachings, Joe Hirsch will lead aa provocative discussion Finding Your unique gift. He will guide us to consider these questions.
- Am I bringing forth everything I can bring forth?
- Am I digging down into that ineffable inner treasure-house that I know is in there?
- Am I willing to go to any lengths to offer my genius to the world?
Joe is a retired psychologist and spiritual seeker who has been involved with the MKP community for over 15 years. He is also a leader of Boys to Men Texas.
Listen to video of Joe’s presentation.
Michael Seay facilitated a discussion on: HOW TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RED/BLUE CONVERSATION. Feb 12, 2022
Doug Seay volunteers for Braver Angels an organization whose mission is to bring Americans together to bridge the partisan divide and strengthen our democracy.
Program objectives:
- To learn about the perspective feelings and experiences of someone you care about who differs from you politically.
- To have a sense of satisfaction about how you convey your own perspectives, feelings, and experiences through.
- To discover common ground if there is any.
Bring an open mind, curiosity, and a sense of community for this learning experience.
Mike is a tax attorney in Austin, Texas.
Power Point of Braver Angels & Men’s Cafe
See video of Mike’s presentation.
Doug Kerley facilitated a discussion on: How a Yogi Might Ring in 2022. on January 12, 2022
There is more to yoga than physical postures. Yoga helps to create perspective and personal space. Do the themes of “Being a Yes”, “Give Up What We Must” and “Am I Ready Now?” sound interesting. This discussion will explore these themes and expand upon how our personal journey in 2022 can be powerful and purposeful.
Bring an open mind, curiosity and a since of community for this learning experience.
YOGA 01082022 Power Point
Worksheet
Alignment Gram V1
Doug is a business owner and has been a dedicated yoga practitioner for the past 10 years.
Ken Roseboom facilitated a discussion on: ARE YOU THRIVING OR SURVIVING?
Remember how you felt at this time last year in the mdist of an pandemic? It’s time for reflection as we move to the close of 2021. This discussion will help us explore when we were thriving and when we were focused on just surviving over the 18 months. We will then expand the conversation to what do we want for ourselves and this community in the next year.
Join us for a lively discussion illuminating how we can bring our best selves to our life and how this community can support that quest.
Ken is an executive leadership coach who joined the MKP community in 2013
Ed A . AYRES facilitated a discussion on FATHERHOOD-A GENERATIONAL PERSPECTIVE OCT 9, 2021
You have had a father and a grandfather and perhaps you are a father or grandfather. How do these roles provide meaning in our lives? What values and
principles are imparted from one generation to the next? If that elder was not there , Who was your mentor?
Ed will open with his presentation and offer men the opportunity to discuss these various important parts of our lives.He is the President of Houston Real Estate Advisors, a real estate brokerage firm in Houston. He is President of the mentoring program “Boys to Men Texas” and been with MKP since 1999.
LVING WITH A LIFE-ALTERING ILLNESS TOWARD JOY AND GRATITUDE- Sept 11, 2021
Bruce Anderson will facilitate a discussion on Living with a Life Altering Illness. The truth is that you are either going to die quickly or have a debilitating illness which impacts your life over a longer period. Although this is a conversation that you might want to avoid, it may be helpful to have it now.
Bruce was diagnosed with Pulmonary Fibrosis in 2015 and is now on oxygen therapy 24/7. He will share his experience in making the life adjustments to this condition.
Men will be invited to share in breakout groups their exposure to others who have life limiting illnesses and develop strategies for living fully.
Bruce is a retired executive coach and joined in the MKP community in 1996. He has mentored ex-felons through the Prison Entrepreneurial Program and boys through the Boys to Men program. He also does pro bono coaching.
Here is a video of Bruce’s presentation
Here is the Guidelines for Living with a Life-Altering Illness
FIND JOY BY GIVING A DOLLAR A DAY AWAY August 14 , 2021
Todd Siva will share with us his personal experience in learning how to let go of the grip of financial fear and show you how to open up your life to more abundance and prosperity in all areas of your life.
Fifteen years ago, Todd found himself struggling financially. Over the course of several prayers and meditations, an idea came to him. The idea was to begin to give away a dollar a day. To give back. To return to God, to the Universe, to All That There Is, the abundance that he was already, and soon to be, blessed with.
He started sharing his story with others, created a weekly inspirational email program, and produced an on-line radio show on giving. The viral spread of Give Away A Dollar A Day was incredible, bringing in givers worldwide. People wrote in from everywhere telling how this has changed their life.
Todd Silva is a husband, father, and businessman. He is a sales engineer by day and works for a large semiconductor company. He writes, produces, and composes music. He is a singer, plays guitars, harmonica, piano, and the modular synthesizer. He was initiated at LOMG in January 2001.
Here is Todds Video Presentation
LEARNING MORE ABOUT YOURSELF THROUGH VOICE DIALOG July 10, 221
Sonny Elliot, will take us though a voice dialog process that will deepen our awareness of our ourselves. Voice Dialogue is the specific method to explore the world of the Selves – also known as sub-personalities.
Sonny will help us become aware of, and to experience, these various Selves that run our lives and to learn how to use them in a conscious way through the development of an Aware Ego Process. Every man will have an opportunity to observe and participate.
Sonny has been with MKP since April 1991. He is a ritual elder and has been on 85 staffings. He co-founded MKP Hawaii in 2004. He is the 2012 SCA Ron Herring award winner.
Here is the video to the program on Voice Dialog
Chris Benning facilitate Exploring the Archetypal Realm and “The Lover” Archetype June 14, 2021
Chris explored Carl Jung’s ideas and theories including the collective unconscious, archetypes as symbols and why it is important to study them and learn about the hazards and the accessing their energy through the symbolic life through myth and story. AND we will hone in on the Lover archetype in us, its wounding / healing and its very important role in tensioning the other major archetypes in healthier expression in one’s life.
Chris will also share a recent experience he had in encountering this archetype in his own hero’s journey experience and its tangible impact on the other archetypes evolving expression in his life today.
You will have an opportunity to explore your Lover Quadrant with others in small groups.
Chris has actively participated in MKP since August 1982. This includes “The Wildflower Project” – up at LOMG with Ken Wickman since 2005.
Here Chris’s presentation on Youtube
Ken Roseboom facilitated a discussion Becoming Closer to the People You Love May 10, 2021
Have you had conversations where you or the other person left feeling incomplete? Did you or the other person feel like you weren’t heard, understood or appreciated. You will have the chance to learn and practice a key skill for deepening conversations and relationships at this session. The result will be stronger trust and deeper connection for you and the people in your life. As an added benefit, participants will become full-fledged members of SHUVA Nation.
Ken Roseboom is an executive leadership coach who joined the MKP community in 2013.
Handout for Ken’s Presentation on SHUVA.
Tom Oldham, U of H Professor of Law, discussed Estate Planning 101 on April 9, 2021
In this meeting, Tom will discuss the detail preparation needed to assure that your estate matters are handled properly for your family and heirs. He will also talk about end-of-life issues and how to manage them from a legal standpoint.
While you may have already thought about and prepared for these matters, it is always a good idea to get different perspectives. Men will be asked to share their approach with each other and learn.
Professor Oldham joined the University of Houston Law Center faculty in 1980. He has taught family law and Texas marital property rights for more than 30 years and authored three textbooks and numerous articles in those fields. His work has been cited in more than 50 appellate case opinions, including the U.S. Supreme Court and the supreme courts of 14 states. He has been active in MKP since 1995.
Here is the file to the presentation
Tom Oldham Estate Planning design 2021
Richard Kummins and Richard Stromatt facilitated a discussion on The Four Agreements March 13, 2021
In The Four Agreements, the two Richards will reveal the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.
The Four Agreements by Don Miquel Ruiz is A New York Times bestseller for over a decade, with over 10 million copies sold in the U.S and translated into 46 languages worldwide.
Richard Kummins is retired from a long career as an Information Technology and is a Keynote Speaker, Educator, Speech Coach, and community volunteer with Baker-Ripley Tax Center and the Houston Food Bank, and is on the board of 2 local music organizations.
His MKP training occurred in April 1994, at John Knox.
Richard Stromatt is retired from commercial and residential Real Estate profession. He now volunteers within our Village Association under the leadership of the Woodlands Township and serves as Secretary Treasurer of Montgomery County Municipal Utility District No. 60. He was initiated in April 1994.
The Four Agreements – 13 March 2021 The Four Agreements – Slides.
The Four Agreements – 13 March 2021
Michael Hart facilitated a discussion on The Stories Behind Photos February 13, 2021
Every once in a while, we take a picture that is very meaningful to us because it comes with a story.
Michael will tell us stories behind some of his photos taken over a 35-year career as a professional photographer.
We are also inviting men to bring one or two photos that are particularly meaningful for them and to tell their story. Contact Bruce if you would like to participate.
Michael’s imagery has brought creative life to the visual concepts of leading advertising agencies and design firms. His photographs have served as the images of choice for some of America’s leading corporations, including many Fortune 500 companies, taking him to over 35 countries along the way.
Bruce Anderson facilitated a discussion on: A Me Too Movement Case Study January 9, 2020
The Me Too movement is a social movement against sexual abuse and sexual harassment where people publicize allegations of sex crimes committed by powerful and/or prominent men. This includes sexual assault and sexual abuse.
In this particular case study, we will look at clips from the series The Morning Show to gain insight into the psychology of consent and the aftermath when young women are seduced by older powerful men. How can this happen? Didn’t they consent? So, what is the problem? Have you seen it? Have we done it?
Bruce Anderson is an executive coach and member of MKP since 1996. He is a founder of the Saturday Morning Men’s Café.
Ken Roseboom facilitated a discussion on: How Alive Do You Feel? October 10, 2020
2020 has been a long, exhausting haul for many of us. For many, that feeling of being connected to ourselves and others through meaningful action seems to have diminished. In this program we will experientially connect to one man’s definition of what it feels like to be fully engaged and living with passion. We will go on an embodied tour of archetype energies and emotions where everyone will be invited to feel more accepting of the present moment, connected to themselves and others, and inspired to meaningful action.
Ken Roseboom is an executive leadership coach who joined the MKP community in 2013.
Here is the video of the presentation
THE POWER OF ADAPTABILITY IN DIFFICULT TIMES SEPTEMBER 12, 11:30-1:30
Join Luis Bautista for this dynamic presentation on Adaptability which is defined as “the quality of being able to adjust to new situations”. The ability to adapt to change is one of the top human skills for surviving and thriving during difficult times. We will discuss 4 traits for training yourself to be more adaptable. Experience how curiosity and new learning can bring peace to the uncomfortable feeling of our changing world.
Luis Bautista is a shaman, coach, spiritual teach, founder of the More Love Foundation and a leader in the Elder community
Here is Luis Presentation on Video
Power Point Presentation
Richard Kummins presented a review of the history of Opera with clips from famous pieces. August 8, 2020
Our next Men’s Cafe meeting is Saturday August 8, 9:30am to 11:30. We will meet on zoom Join Richard Kummins as he takes on a 50+-year journey exploring, loving, and collecting classical music and especially opera. Richard will explain what makes opera so special and we will see and hear some of the most well-known moments in all of opera, with the greatest voices in its history.
Richard is an award-winning professional speaker and educator, and a Distinguished Toastmaster. He is on the Advisory Board at Opera in the Heights and is a volunteer coordinator for the Metropolitan Opera National Council. He has been published twice in the English magazine The Record Collector. Richard also volunteers at Baker-Ripley Tax Centers. He was initiated in the Mankind Project in 1994.
Here is the video of his presentation
Kummins Opera List
Joe Hirsch facilitated a discussion on MALE PRIVILEGE IN OUR CULTURE July 11, 2020
Join Joe Hirsch while he looks at the cultural and psychologically processes that generate male toxicity in ourselves, our sons, and grandsons. Do we swim in a culture of misogyny? In ways do we relate to our feminine selves and women in negative ways? How does the patriarchal hierarchy influence our attitudes?
Joe is a retired Licensed Professional Counselor and spiritual seeker who has been involved with the MKP community and Boys to Men Texas for over ten years.
Video Presentation
Power Point
Handout
Jim Rosborough will facilitate a discussion on AN IRREFUTABLE TRUTH IN LIFE JUNE 13, 2020
Join Jim as he explores the core truth in life. We can train ourselves to recognize that the conditions for happiness are already here and that we are in the wake of love.
Jim has been in MKP since 1995 and is a certified Ritual Elder. He has been a leader in Primary Integration Training for MKP for 15 years. He active in the Boys to Men SchoolProgram and Rite of Passage Weekend..
Jims Presentation
Michael Bologna will facilitate a discussion on HOW TO BE HAPPY TODAY May 9, 2020
Join Michael as he explores what ancient philosophers teach us about happiness. We all know that modern consumer-driven cultural values do not promote inner satisfaction and self-awareness. What satisfaction one gets from buying something is short lived. Michael will give us some techniques that we can use right now to become happier with our lives.
At the end of this meeting, regardless of your circumstances, you will be happier.
See video of Michael Bologna’s talk.
Here is handout for Michael’s presentation.
Gene Perry facilitated a discussion ARE YOU STRONG OR WEAK?. Staying fit while sheltering in place. April 11, 2020
Are you in as good a shape as you were ten years ago? If not, you could be. The aging process by its very nature can result in a weak , frail body. How do you see yourself in future years? Will you become weak and frail or will you have a strong and vibrant body? The actions you take that now will make all the difference.
Join Gene Perry for a discussion of importance of regular exercise, strength training and nutrition.
Gene is a leader emeritus for MKP, having lead over 100 NWTA weekends over the last 20 years. He is a health and fitness coach.
Here is the video recording of Gene’s talk.
Luis Bautista THE CONTEMPLATIVE PRACTICE OF EQUANIMITY February 8, 2002
The contemplative practice of equanimity is learning how to navigate through stressful situations which disrupt and challenge our serenity. What if the emotional balance needed in stressful moments is already within us? What if the wisdom gained through life experience can be tapped and activated to allow us a clear moment of “grace under pressure”?
Join Luis in a conversation and demonstration of a daily contemplative practice on Equanimity. Bring your Self. Bring your Wisdom. Bring your Beginner’s mind.
Listen to Luis’s talk.
Handout on Equanimity
BUILDING A SUPPORTIVE COMMUNITY AS WE AGE? January 9
Al Levi explored the process of aging and how we can support each other by deepening our friendships and connecting when there is a need for support. Join us in a creative discussion on how we can build a supportive community.
Al has been a headhunter for the past 40 plus years responsible for a sales personnel search firm and is now life and career coach to support others. Al is the second Texas Warrior and is a founding member of the Houston Mankind Project. He was an elder leader serving on the Houston board and has been a leader of The Fall Gathering of Men. He represented Houston at the national Elders conference held in Houston.
ANXIETY– WHAT THE HELL IS IT? October 12, 2019
Is it a feeling, an emotion, a mood, a body sensation, or something else? And….if you can’t get rid of it, how do you manage it.
All of us experience anxiety at some point, perhaps a lot. Join Bruce as we explore and discuss this very personal and disturbing phenomenon.
Perhaps we won’t find absolute answers, but we be able to at least commiserate with each other on our plight.
Bruce Anderson is a leadership coach who has been in MKP since 1996.
RESOURCES
- The Healing Power of the Breath: Simple Techniques to Reduce Stress and Anxiety, Enhance Concentration, and Balance Your Emotions
- Brown, Richard P., Patricia, MD Gerbarg
- Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion
by Sam Harris and Simon & Schuster Audio - Waking Up Course by App by Sam Harris
- How to Stop Worrying and Start Living: Time-Tested Methods for Conquering Worry
by Dale Carnegie, Andrew MacMillan, et al. - How To Stop Worrying and Start Living: What Other People Think Of Me Is None Of My Business by Simeon Lindstrom
- The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
- Video A Reason To Stop Worrying – Watch This Whenever You’re Stressed Or Anxious
CURIOSITY-CHILD’S PLAY OR SUPERPOWER? September 12, 2019
How does being curious impact our relationships, our connection to ourselves and even our resilience to adversity?
Ken Roseboom offered an opportunity to play, learn and have the opportunity to experience 3 practices that will enhance your ability to capture the power of curiosity. You will be able bring new
Ken is an executive leadership coach who joined the MKP community in 2013.
SHOULD I DECLARE MY ELDERSHIP? August 10, 2019
All of us resist aging, when in reality we should be embracing it. Becoming an elder may help you do this.
Bryan Siegel offered a discussion of the gifts & burdens of eldership. What do Elders bring? What are your views and projections of elders in the past, present and future? Eldership can be a balance of archetypes and bring a full experience of life. Participate in a declaration of eldership ceremony.
Bryan Siegel has been in the Mankind Project since 1994. He was certified as a ritual elder in 2007. He is currently Elder Chair for the Houston Community.
ACTION AND CONTEMPLATION BY RAISING OUR CONSCIOUSNESS July 13, 2019
Paul offered several techniques to diminish suffering in your own life as well as others.
This will help you develop both your conscious and unconscious contact with your Higher Power / Devine and develop a deeper and more recognizable connection. It will also deepen your understanding of emotional suffering, reduce it and bring more happiness and peace in your life.
Paul has been an entrepreneur in early years and now has been devoting his life to learning and to teaching others to grow and develop to lead productive lives. He was initiated in 2010. He is involved Illumen’s Men Right of Passage weekend.
RICHARD ROHR PRAYER
HOW TO SPEAK AND BE HEARD June 8, 2019
Luis Bautista presented The 3 Step Formula for Being Heard 100% of the time. Do you ever wonder why people don’t seem to listen to you when you speak? The answer may not be the message but in the way the message is being delivered. Research show that verbal communication is only 30% of what others hear from you. What happens with the 70% that is not heard?
Bring your curiosity and openness for new learning!
Luis Bautista is a shaman, coach, spiritual teach, founder of the More Love Foundation and a leader in the Elder community.
Hear Luis’s presentation
CREATING A SOUL CONNECTION WITH OTHERS May 11, 2019
Brian Kurtz will lead us through an easy exercise in which you will learn to distinguish between mind chatter and “soul talk”. This will allow you to connect with others at a deeper level, potentially transforming relationships in your life and connecting to your divine nature.
Brian is a healer, teacher and light worker who calls in Spirit’s power and love to heal physical, psychological, and emotional issues.
Brian did his MKP September 2012 and served as the Elder Coordinator for Central Texas for three years. Brian still speaks MKP and his mission everywhere he goes, committed to Service in the world.
Here is Brian’s introduction to the processes he used to get us in touch with our connection to each other.
Learn more about Brian’s programs at www.healedbyspirit.com
OPPS..I HAVE BRAIN CANCER..NOW WHAT DO I DO? April 16,2019
Dave Daugherty will discuss his journey in dealing with a life threatening medical condition and how one’s identity an d context for life transforms how you see yourself and others.
- What are the logistics of dealing with medical system? Understanding how your context is totally different from the system’s perspective and the medical staff.
- How do you deal with the spiritual dimensions of this? Yours and everyone else’s dimensions.
- How do you support your family, during this time? Letting go and not giving up.
Dave has been an executive coach in his own practice for 30 years following a career in finance. He has been in the Warrior community for 26 years.
HOPE I DIE BEFORE I GET OLD March 9, 2019
(And other misconceptions about getting older)
David Davis lad a discussion on
- Are you looking ahead or only in the rearview mirror?
- Do you have enough ( and what’s enough anyway)?
- What’s after the education, career, relationship, possessions?
- Are you planning for something other than retirement?
- Join David on other questions about aging; maybe ones you are afraid to ask.
David (Smiling Bengal Tiger) has been active in MKP since 2009, serving as Center Director North Texas, Chair of MKPUSA Center Council and Elder for the SCA Leader Body.
WHAT IT MEANS TO BE COMPASSIONATE February 9, 2019
Carl Curtis led a discussion of how compassionate? What is it and how can we express it in our lives every day? When did you show empathy and compassion? When were you not compassionate?
Here are some resources on compassion Carl shared.
Daniel Goleman – Why Aren’t We More Compassionate
Joan Halifax – Compassion and Healing
Kristin Neff – Self Compassion 1
Kristin Neff-Self Compassion 2
James Forbes – Compassion at the dinner table
Bruce Anderson Blog on Compassion
Car Curtis is a retire entrepreneur who was initiated in MKP in 1996. He has led the Primary Integration Training for a number of years and was a group leader in the Boys to Men Program
WHAT TRUTHS CREATE OUR IDENTIFY January 12, 2019
Michael Butera Facilitated our Identify and how it impacts our beliefs. How do you know what you know is true? In what ways do we hang on to our truths to maintain our identity?Join Michael in a discussion of how we know what we know. And why we hang on to our “truths” at all cost.
Michael Butera has been a practicing psychotherapist for the last 45 years. Prior to this career he was a Catholic priest. He is married to JoAnn, who is also a psychotherapist. He is a father, grandfather and New Warrior.
LIFE SHOCKS AND HOW TO LOVE THEM October 13, 2018
Joe Hirsch had a lively discussion on the illusion of imperfection and the realization that the Universe is unfolding perfectly. This subject is based on the work Sophie Sabbage, author of Lifeshocks: And How To Love Them.
TRANSFORMATION PROCESS TO ACHIEVE JOY, ALIVENESS AND SATISFACTION September 8, 2018
Al Levi explored an internal process that will enhance satisfaction in your life. Most all of us are aware of what is needed externally for happiness; however, do we really know what is needed internally for satisfaction.
The ”WHO ARE YOU” process is available for you to expand true joy and love in your life.
Al has been in the personnel search business for over 40 years empowering candidates to receive 6 figure income. Al is a founding member of the Houston Mankind Project. He has led MKP elders locally and nationally.
REDUCE ANXIETY AND ACHIEVE PEACE WITH THE RAINBOW MEETING MEDITATION August 11, 2018
The Rainbow Meditation Process. The rainbow meditation is a form of directed meditation. This method slowly leads you away from things which cause you any anxiety or stress and towards inner peace.
Walt Stewart is a founding member of Men’s Council of the Houston area and is a certified Leader for Mankind Project.
THE BREAKTHROUGH PROCESS-BRINGING ARCHETYPE ENERGIES TO RESOLVE REAL WORLD CHALLENGES July 14, 2018
Ken Roseboom. Many of our problems have associated shame, blame and hidden agendas which result in ineffective or even no solutions. The Breakthrough Process reframes “The Problem”, separates the data from the “noise”, and provides the opportunity for renewed commitment and creative action. This process brings King, Warrior, Lover and Magician energy to solving real world challenges.
BEGINNERS MIND: A UNIQUE APPROACH TO ANY ACTIVITY- June 9, 2018
Beginners mind is an open mind approach that all things are possible while suspending previously held beliefs and perceptions. It means relinquishing the attachment to “I know” and the acceptance of “I don’t know”. The approach of “I don’t know” is the first step in learning to trust intuition and curiosity.
Join Luis Bautista for an educational and unique approach to life.
TAMING TRIGGERS AND ACHIEVING PEACE IN YOUR LIFE-May 12, 2018
How often are you triggered by: other drivers, spouses, children, colleagues at work. How often do you make yourself unhappy, angry, shamed by the external world? Join Bruce Anderson in analyzing your triggers and learning to respond rather than react to the world around you and bring peace to your everyday life.
Bruce Anderson is an executive coach and joined in the MKP community in 1996. He mentors ex-felons through the Prison Entrepreneurial Program and boys through the Boys to Men program.
Triggering Situations-Your Inner Story
YES, THAT VOICE IN YOUR HEAD IS CRAZY-April 14, 2018
Joe Hirsch led a lively discussion on the illusion of self and the realization that that voice in your head is not really who you truly are. This subject is based on the work of Mickey Singer, author of the Untethered Soul.
Joe is a retired Licensed Professional Counselor and spiritual seeker who has been involved with the MKP community for over ten years.
Here is a recording of his talk.
Joe’s handout Mens ‘s Cafe – April 2018 handout
DISCOVERING YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF- March 10, 2018
Jeff Davis conducted a process of answering a few simple questions to reveal where life may not be aligned or congruent with your authentic self.Many people move through life unconsciously following a script or set of beliefs that was written for them by others.
When our life is not congruent with who we are, negative results may show up in any area of life, such as our health, relationships, career, or spiritual. We may then doubt ourselves as we experience discontent or have a longing for more from our life. Or, move into the retirement years and feel unfulfilled without a daily schedule or having the identity or label for ourselves.
AS SONS AND FATHERS: HOW WE CAN ACCESS WISDOM, February 10, 2018
TRANSCEND CONFLICT AND FIND JOY
Tom Oldham reviewed the subjects of the Fall Gathering. Those who did not attend will get to do some processes and get an overview of the weekend. Uncover whats it takes to deepen these relationship in our life.
Tom is a law professor at University of Houston and has been active in MKP for 20 years.
“DON’T WAIT UNTIL YOU SNEEZE TO BLESS ME” January 13, 2018
Join Rick Goldberg as he explains the beauty and power of bringing blessings into your life and the life of others. After his talk, you’ll each join a triad to discuss breakthroughs & blocks in your life.
Rick is a Trial Psychologist, Jury Consultant, and a Co-Leader of NWTA weekends for the Mankind Project. He has a BA in Communication Studies from UC Santa Barbara and a MA in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica.
Bruce Anderson facilitated a discussion on October 14, 2017
WHAT IS YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE?
Maintaining relationships requires expressing love. How do you express love? How do you prefer a partner express love to you? Learn about the Five Love Languages and how you can deepen your connection to your partner.
Five Love Languages Handout
Wayne Herbert facilitated a discussion on August 12, 2017
DROWNING IN ESTROGEN-AGING AND SEXUALITY PART II
Join Wayne Herbert as we examine our attitudes, judgments, and values when it comes to women, from the time of our earliest recognition that women are different and somehow aroused/interested us, to our later life understanding of relationships between men and women.
As to his credentials, let just say that Wayne professes to understand women.
Wayne Herbert facilitated a discussion on July 8, 1917
ARE WE DROWNING IN ESTROGEN?
Join Wayne Herbert as we examine our attitudes, judgments, and values when it comes to women, from the time of our earliest recognition that women are different and somehow aroused/interested us, to our later life understanding of relationships between men and women.
As to his credentials, let just say that Wayne professes to understand women.
LIVING YOUR LIFE IN A CONSCIOUS STATE OF AWARENESS
Join Luis as he explains how he uses David Hawkins Map of Consciousness in his personal and professional life. Break-out groups will give you a hands-on experience for using the map effectively.
Joe Hirsch facilitated a discussion on May 13
PERSONAL CHANGE-A DANCE OF LIFE OR A PAINFUL ORDEAL?
- Joe will discuss how change can aid to enhance personal growth during transitions of life – starting a new job, marriage, divorce, aging.
- Share your personal change experiences and learn from others.
Joe Hirsch handout. Click and printout.
Joe’s presentation Sound quality improves at 2:34
Dr. Bob Stecker facilitated on April 8, 2017
ENRICHING YOU LIFE THROUGH ELDERSHIP
- What are the characteristics of being an Elder?
- Who do you have to be? What value do you bring?
- Share your experiences with the elders in your life. Discuss your experience of being an elder.
Bruce Anderson facilitated on March 11, 2017
ENRICHING YOUR LIFE THROUGH MENTORING
What are the benefits of being a mentor? How do you to attract mentees? What are some of the principles and techniques of mentoring? What is not mentoring? Share your experiences in being a mentor and learn from others.
Al Levi facilitated on February 11, 2017
TRANSFORMATION PRACTICES TO ACHIEVE JOY, ALIVENESS AND SATISFACTION
The program will be experiential with all participants taking turns as the coach and the client.
Ken Mann facilitated January 14, 2017
LIGHTENING UP ABOUT LIFE”KEYS TO YOUR HUMOR GAME
Ken showed us how to enrich and encourage humor in our lives, as men and human beings by leading us in a lively discussion about our own humorous experiences and how to tailor what works for others into our ongoing lives, starting now.
Jerry England facilitated a discussion September 10th, 2016 on
WHAT IS YOUR HERO’S JOURNEY
The Hero’s Journey is the common template of a broad category of tales that involve a hero who goes on an adventure, and in a decisive crisis wins a victory, and then comes home changed or transformed. Our discussion will help us relate this concept to our lives
Join Jerry for a vibrant discussion about getting clear on your life’s hero’s journey.
Luis Bautista facilitated a discussion on September 12th, 2016 on
YOUR LIFE AS A CONTRIBUTION
We are a “living contribution” except we may not know it because of the ego’s desire for achievement and recognition.
A healthy dose of self-compassion and minimizing the “inner critic” are keys for accepting that our life may be the contribution for living our life’s purpose.
Luis Bautista facilitated a discussion July 9,2016
THE 6 SECOND MINDFULNESS APPROACH
The 6 Second Mindfulness Approach helps people put down that mental baggage and approach each new situation with a present, focused mind.
Learn the 3 steps to be more fully present and vibrant in your personal or professional relationships. This is a “hands on” interactive presentation for participants to experience the latest tools from Google’s training program called Search Inside Yourself”.
Here is audio of Luis’s presentation
Joe Hirsch facilitated a discussion June 9, 2016
The Journey to Vibrant Wholeness
What is this life Journey about? What is the meaning of life? The first half of life is your biography authored by external authorities. The second half of life is your autobiography as you create meaning by moving from external authority to your internal authority.
Joe Hirsch, after a 25-year career in oil exploration software, received a Master Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and is a Licensed Professional Counselor. Joe has a life-long avocation of consciousness exploration.
Hear Joe’s Presentation
Here is Joe’s Handout
Micheal Butera facilitated a discussion on May 14, 2016
WHAT IS WRONG? I NEVER GET ENOUGH
Most humans do not know the real satisfaction barrier that keeps then unhappy and they therfore continue to resort to behaviors that don’t work. I plan to address this basic satisfaction barrier that few people know about.
Michael Butera has been a practicing psychotherapist for the last 45 years. Prior to this career he was a Catholic priest. He will soon celebrate his golden anniversary with his wife, JoAnn, who is also a psychotherapist. He is a father, grandfather and New Warrior.
Hear Michael’s Presentation
Steve Scholl facilitated a discussion on Saturday April 9, 2016
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n DEEPEN THE INNER EXPERIENCE OF YOUR FEELING AND TRANSFORM
When it comes to feelings, what hides in the layers beneath our anger and judgment? How can we truly take responsibility for our feelings? Can the negative charge open the door to connection, empathy, intimacy and healing?
Steve Scholl, a lawyer and professional mediator uses Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication (NVC) in his practice and facilities a NVC group in Houston.
Hear Steve’s presentation.
Bruce Anderson facilitated a discussion on March 12, 2016
YOUR NEXT STEP TO HAPPiNESS
Discover the Six Basic Human Needs and How to Get Them Met.
All of us have ups and downs that affects our happiness. Getting clear about those things that truly excite us leads to taking meaningful action and becoming happier. Bruce is an executive coach and joined in the MKP community in 1996.
Listen to Bruce’s Presentation
Saturday Morning Men’s Cafe January 19, 2016
Luis Bautista facilitated a discussion on
CHARACTERISTICS OF A CONSCIOUS MAN
Listen to Luis’s presentation
